﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/"><channel rdf:about="/rss.aspx"><title>My Favorite Things</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com</link><description /><dc:publisher>Quick Blogcast</dc:publisher><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://app.onlinequickblog.com/" /><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2012/03/04/pictures-from-spain.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/25/the-hidden-kingdom-now-available.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/06/free-sample-the-hidden-kingdom-chapters-1-and-2.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/02/the-hidden-kingdom-a-chapter-book.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/03/31/becoming-his.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/02/04/attention-library-lovers.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/01/10/temple-attendance-a-sacred-and-personal-responsibility.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/12/13/my-peace-give-i-unto-you.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/11/17/12-days-of-gratitude-and-thanksgiving.aspx?ref=rss" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/09/22/the-parable-of-the-strawberry.aspx?ref=rss" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2012/03/04/pictures-from-spain.aspx?ref=rss"><title>Pictures from Spain</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2012/03/04/pictures-from-spain.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;div style="" align="center"&gt;My husband and I went on an extended trip through Europe last year. Here is a picture from our 2011 trip to Seville, Spain.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="-webkit-center"&gt;&lt;font color="#804000" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;img src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/19029-18181/AlcazarinSevilleSpain2small.jpg?a=52" style="border: 0px solid;"&gt;&lt;br class="Apple-interchange-newline"&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="-webkit-center"&gt;&lt;font color="#804000" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Alcazar in Seville&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="-webkit-center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(128, 64, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-weight: bold; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="-webkit-center"&gt;&lt;font color="#804000" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-03-05T05:18:08Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/25/the-hidden-kingdom-now-available.aspx?ref=rss"><title>The Hidden Kingdom now Available</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/25/the-hidden-kingdom-now-available.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="" align="center"&gt;&lt;img src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/19029-18181/TheHiddenKingdomsmallforwebsite.jpg?a=96" style="border: 0px solid;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="center"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="" align="left"&gt;"The Hidden Kingdom," Book 1 of my chapter book series "Heroes of the Highest Order," is now available as an ebook at&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Kingdom-Chapter-Highest-ebook/dp/B005TYXGL2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1319601971&amp;amp;sr=8-1" target="" class=""&gt;Amazon&lt;/a&gt;,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-hidden-kingdom-rk-hinrichsen/1106523783?ean=2940013261761&amp;amp;itm=1&amp;amp;usri=heroes%2bof%2bthe%2bhighest" target="" class=""&gt;Barnes and Noble&lt;/a&gt;, and&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/94998" target="" class=""&gt;Smashwords&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;A paperback edition will soon be available.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-10-26T04:11:11Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/06/free-sample-the-hidden-kingdom-chapters-1-and-2.aspx?ref=rss"><title>Free Sample: The Hidden Kingdom Chapters 1 and 2</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/06/free-sample-the-hidden-kingdom-chapters-1-and-2.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;p class="Centered"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;THE MAGIC PLAYGROUND&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Speedy Dan glared out the car window. The playground Mom had
parked next to was nothing like the one he used to play in before his family
moved. This one had only two tree swings, one merry-go-round, and a slide with
four steps.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Worse than that? It was way too small. Dan would never be
able to run faster than the wind, faster than lightning, even faster than a
superhero before he reached the back fence.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mom took her hands off the steering wheel and looked over
her shoulder at Dan. “Your sister’s almost at the slide. Don’t you want to go
with her?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan squirmed within his seat belt. “Not really.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Are you sure? Your dad and I used to love to play here when
we were kids,” Mom said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan slipped his hand into his pants pocket and squeezed the
hard, gold medal.&lt;font&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/font&gt;“Fastest Boy in Mrs.
Peabody’s Class,” it said. He’d won it last month before school ended.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“I’m sure,” he said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mom sighed, opened her car door, and stepped outside.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan watched her through the window. Any minute now, she
would call Page back, and the three of them would return to the house where
Grandpa lived before he disappeared. It was the same house he and his family
now lived in.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mom glanced down at Dan. “You’ll like it here,” she said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“No I won’t,” Dan said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mom cocked her head to one side. She smiled the way she did
when she hid a Christmas or birthday present behind her back. “Try the swings
first, Page,” she called to Dan’s sister. “They’re amazing.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Page turned and waved.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan undid his seatbelt. He opened his door. “What’s so
amazing about the swings?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mom smiled her secret smile again. “You’ll have to find that
out for yourself.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Oh, all right.” Dan climbed out of the car.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Race ya, Dan!” Page called. She started running.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan ran too. Within seconds, he zipped past Page and jumped
onto the first tree swing.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Take care of your little sister,” Mom called.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Why? They weren’t going anywhere. “All right,” Dan called
back. He then pushed his air-light sneakers into the sky.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Page jumped onto the tree swing next to his. She kicked off
her sandals.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Look! I’m higher than the other trees!” Dan said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“So am I,” Page said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Now I’m higher than the Rocky Mountains.” Dan pumped his
swing higher, but when it also went faster, he gritted his teeth. He clenched
the swing chains.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“What’s happening?” Page yelled.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“We’ve got to jump off these swings!” Dan said. Then he
jumped.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Clouds whisked past him. Wind whooshed like the inside of a
hollow tunnel. The playground . . . then Mom . . .&lt;font&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/font&gt;disappeared.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="Centered"&gt;&lt;a name="TheHiddenKingdom"&gt;THE HIDDEN KINGDOM&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan landed on his stomach with his face pressed flat against
the ground.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Are you all right?” Page whispered.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan moaned. He wanted to say, “I don’t know. Are you?” But
his mouth was full of dirt.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“I think so,” Page said. “Nothing hurts.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;That’s weird! Dan thought.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“What is?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan spit out the dirt. “Page?” he thought again. “Are you
moving your mouth when you talk?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“No,” Page answered. “Are you?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“No. All I do is think the words and you hear them.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Same with me. Cool, huh?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Cool. And strange. Have you opened your eyes yet?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Nope. I’m afraid to look. When we jumped, I couldn’t see
the playground anymore.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Me neither,” Dan said. “Let’s both open our eyes at the
same time. Okay?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Okay. On the count of three. One . . .”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Two. . .”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Three,” they said together. Both opened their eyes.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Where are we?” Page said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Right in front of them, Dan saw a tall, rocky mountain. It
went straight toward the sky.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“I don’t know,” he answered. “Mom said we would be
surprised. Do you think this is what she was talking about?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Maybe.” Page frowned.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Your voice is wobbling,” Dan said. “Are you all right?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“I feel like I did the first day I went to Kindergarten.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;That’s how Dan felt too—all scared inside—but he didn’t want
his sister to know. He wanted her to think he was brave. So he looked over his
shoulder away from her.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“AAAAAAAH!” Page screamed. “We’re on the edge of a
mountain!”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“Don’t look down!” Dan grabbed her hand. “We’ll be all
right. Let’s climb away from here.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Inch after inch, Dan and Page climbed up the face of the
rocky mountain until it flattened into a large, green field. The grass was
sprinkled with tiny gold and purple flowers.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;They crawled a few more feet into the field then stood. Safe
again.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Page squeezed Dan’s hand tighter. “Are we still in the Rocky
Mountains?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Dan looked around him. He saw a circle of sharp, jagged
mountains with a valley in the middle. The mountains were covered in thick,
moss-like grass and lots of tall, bushy trees.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Some of the trees were dark green. Some were deep red. And
some were bright gold. A shimmering castle stood on top of the tallest mountain
on the other side of the valley.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“I don’t know where we are,” Dan said.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;“You are in the Hidden Kingdom,” said a gravelly voice.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Spiritual Message</dc:subject><dc:subject>overcoming weaknesses</dc:subject><dc:subject>My Favorite Places and Things</dc:subject><dc:subject>Teaching Children</dc:subject><dc:subject>My Books</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-10-06T17:49:23Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/02/the-hidden-kingdom-a-chapter-book.aspx?ref=rss"><title>The Hidden Kingdom (A Chapter Book)</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/10/02/the-hidden-kingdom-a-chapter-book.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>Along with my suspense novels, I've decided to enter the e-publishing world with my Chapter Book series for ages 5-8. The series is titled &lt;i&gt;Heroes of the Highest Order&lt;/i&gt;, and Book 1 is &lt;i&gt;The Hidden Kingdom. &lt;/i&gt;It will be born this month under the name R.K. Hinrichsen. For more information, check out my new websites: &lt;a href="http://heroesofthehighestorder.com" target="" class=""&gt;Heroes of the Highest Order&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://rkhinrichsen.com" target="" class=""&gt;R.K. Hinrichsen&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div&gt;&lt;img src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/19029-18181/TheHiddenKingdomsmall.jpg?a=99" style="border: 0px solid;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-10-02T06:20:42Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/03/31/becoming-his.aspx?ref=rss"><title>Becoming His</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/03/31/becoming-his.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;A
number of years ago, my husband and I had a difficult time getting along with
one of our neighbors. Not even quick fixes, like cookies at the door, seemed to
solve our grievances (although the cookies didn’t hurt &lt;/font&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="Wingdings"&gt;&lt;font style="mso-char-type:symbol;mso-symbol-font-family:Wingdings"&gt;J&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;).
To make matters more difficult, we were in the same ward, and the wife and I
were serving in the same organization. Needless to say, we frequently felt
offended and angry with one another.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; " face="'Times New Roman', serif" size="3"&gt;Eventually, our bishop
called my husband and me in to talk with him about the situation. After
listening to our side of the story, we discussed possible solutions, including
“cookies-at-the-door,” but ultimately, he said something like, “Read the
scriptures, and when you find your answer, tell me about it.”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Several weeks later, I found my answer in Doctrine
and Covenants 38:27, “&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;I say unto you, be one; and
if ye are not one ye are not mine.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Prior to this, I knew I
needed to turn the other cheek and love my “enemies”—Isn’t that what the
cookies were all about?—but when I read that scripture I realized I had to do
more than try to show love; I had to become united with my neighbors or I
wouldn’t belong to Christ. That knowledge stung. Worse, how could I accomplish
it? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Although I’m still
working on becoming “one” with others, over the ensuing years, I’ve come to
know that being offended has nothing to do with the offense or the person who
committed that offense. Instead, it has everything to do with ourselves and how
we handle the situation. I’ve also learned there are four truths—albeit personal
assessments—I’ve had to make on my continuing journey to become one with
Christ.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; "&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;1)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; "&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; "&gt; 1)&lt;/font&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Am
I choosing to not be offended?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;
In a recent conference address, Elder Bednar stated: “&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;To be offended is a &lt;i&gt;choice&lt;/i&gt; we make; it is not a &lt;i&gt;condition&lt;/i&gt;
inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;"&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; " face="'Times New Roman', serif" size="3"&gt;In
the grand division of all of God’s creations, there are things to act and
things to be acted upon (see 2 Nephi 2:13-14). As sons and daughters of our
Heavenly Father, we have been blessed with the gift of moral agency, the
capacity for independent action and choice. . . To believe that someone or
something can &lt;i&gt;make&lt;/i&gt; us feel offended, angry, hurt, or bitter diminishes
our moral agency and transforms us into objects to be acted upon. As agents, however,
you and I have the power to act and to choose how we will respond to an
offensive or hurtful situation.”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;font style="mso-list:Ignore"&gt;2)&lt;font style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Is
my testimony based on Jesus Christ, the Book of Mormon, and His church—the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—or on some other thing or person?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt; If it is, then I must keep these truths
from 3 Nephi in mind: &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;“For verily, verily I say unto you, he
that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is
the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with
anger, one with another.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;“Behold, this is not my doctrine, to
stir up the hearts of men with anger, one against another; but this is my
doctrine, that such things should be done away.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; " face="'Times New Roman', serif" size="3"&gt;“By
this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to
another.”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;font style="mso-list:Ignore"&gt;3)&lt;font style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Am
I striving to become like Christ?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;font style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt; Again, from Elder Bednar: “&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font style="font-size:11.0pt !msorm;line-height:115% !msorm;font-family:&amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot; !msorm;
mso-fareast-font-family:Calibri !msorm;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-latin !msorm"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;font style="mso-prop-change:Ronda 20110225T0916"&gt;The Savior is the greatest example
of how we should respond to potentially offensive events or situations.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;“&lt;font style="font-size:11.0pt !msorm;
line-height:115% !msorm;font-family:&amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot; !msorm;mso-fareast-font-family:
Calibri !msorm;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-latin !msorm"&gt;&lt;font style="mso-prop-change:Ronda 20110225T0916"&gt;And the world, because of their
iniquity, shall judge him to be a thing of naught; wherefore they scourge him,
and he suffereth it; and they smite him, and he suffereth it. Yea, they spit
upon him, and he suffereth it, because of his loving kindness and his
long-suffering towards the children of men”&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt; (1 Nephi 19:9).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLists]--&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; "&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;4)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; "&gt; 4)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt; &amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;Do I fully trust Christ?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt; While
sometimes I might forget I know I can trust Christ, the truth is, I do know
that I can. A few years after the event I mentioned at the beginning of this
article, my family and I faced another, even more difficult challenge which
involved lawsuits, large monetary loss, and great fear and distrust. After
several years of trying to resolve the issue, I felt very angry and bitter. I
knew these feelings were wrong, and yet no matter how hard I tried to get over
them, I couldn’t do it.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; " face="'Times New Roman', serif"&gt;One day, as I was folding laundry and
feeling overwhelmingly upset, I prayed, “Heavenly Father, please help me! I
can’t do this on my own.” Suddenly, just as the people of Alma had their burdens
lightened so they could not feel them (Mosiah 24:14), I, literally, could no
longer feel the burden of my anger and bitterness. I then knew the Lord was
carrying that burden for me while I worked through my feelings. Christ does visit
us in our afflictions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; " face="'Times New Roman', serif" size="3"&gt;A final note. I believe life is a
laboratory, where each person has the opportunity to become more like Christ. Because
of, or perhaps in spite of, that fact, we often find our own wills and
weaknesses at odds with the wills and weaknesses of others. While such
experiences may hurt us, they also provide the challenging friction that adds
to our refiner’s fire and offers the double-edged opportunity to be saviors
ourselves. I mean, through what other experiences can we better develop love
and forgiveness for “enemies” who are, in fact, our beloved brothers and sisters—people
we once, desperately, wanted to bring back home?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Spiritual Message</dc:subject><dc:subject>Family Home Evening</dc:subject><dc:subject>overcoming weaknesses</dc:subject><dc:subject>Life</dc:subject><dc:subject>yourLDSneighborhood</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-03-25T17:09:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/02/04/attention-library-lovers.aspx?ref=rss"><title>Attention Library Lovers!</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/02/04/attention-library-lovers.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;STRONG&gt;February is Library Lovers Month, and I'm celebrating. If you purchase a copy of one of my novels, MISSING or TRAPPED, during the month of February, send a copy of your receipt to my email address at &lt;A href="mailto:rondagibbhinrichsen@gmail.com"&gt;rondagibbhinrichsen@gmail.com&lt;/A&gt;, and I'll enter you in a drawing to have a free copy of TRAPPED sent to the library of your choice.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>My Books</dc:subject><dc:subject>Writing Life</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-02-04T16:02:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/01/10/temple-attendance-a-sacred-and-personal-responsibility.aspx?ref=rss"><title>TEMPLE ATTENDANCE: A SACRED AND PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2011/01/10/temple-attendance-a-sacred-and-personal-responsibility.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;FONT size=+0&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;
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&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt" align=left&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;Like the paying of tithes and offerings, temple attendance is a deeply sacred and personal action which brings divine blessings to us and our families. As such, our leaders have counseled us to go to the temple as often as our circumstances allow. However, because we don’t always recognize when we’ve received these blessings, being more like the righteous Lamanites who were “baptized with fire and with the Holy Ghost and they knew it not (3 Nephi 9:20),” we might wonder if we are attending often enough to secure them. &lt;/FONT&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;E&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;ach of us must answer that question for ourselves, taking into consideration our available&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;time, abilities and family situations, but I have learned there are some common “signs” (the fruits of the devoted temple attendee’s labors) or blessings—we can use as a gauge: &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;1. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;Strengthened family relations, even with less active or non-member relatives.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt; There are &lt;BR&gt;several &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=4d84e3ec0bfcd110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px" color=#0000ff&gt;examples &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;of this in the Ensign, but I also want to go on record as stating that due to my own and some of my other relatives’ temple attendance, I have seen marked improvement in my relationship with a less-active family member. Those miracles have come gradually, almost imperceptibly, but they have come.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;2. A testimony of the temple burns inside them like an ever-present flame. Under the term, “Tabernacle,” the Bible Dictionary describes the portable temple the Israelites carried with them as they wandered through the wilderness. Inside it, the Holy of Holies “contained only one piece of furniture: the Ark of the Covenant, or the Ark of the Testimony” which housed sacred objects, like the two tables of stone. As I read this description, I immediately thought of a friend of mine. She, a mother with children ranging in ages between grade school and college, attends the temple every week so she can “stay sane.” In consequence, whenever we discuss problems we have with our families or our callings, she immediately says, “we need to go to the temple.” She, like the Ark of the Testimony, carries inside her bodily temple an ever-present testimony of the powerful priesthood blessings which come through temple attendance.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR clear=all&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px" dir=ltr align=left&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;In her 1999 conference talk, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=1c9e84d4a0a0c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;Carol B. Thomas&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;, &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;then the First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency, noted these additional blessings:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;1. “Going to the temple often provides balance in our lives. After returning home, we have an increased sense of well-being; the influence of the Spirit can shield us from the frustrations of the world. Listen to this promise by President Hinckley: “If there were more temple work done in the Church, there would be less … selfishness, less … contention, less … demeaning [of] others. The whole Church would increasingly be lifted to greater heights of spirituality, love for one another, and obedience to the commandments of God” (Teachings, 622).”&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;2.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;“The spiritual atmosphere of the temple curbs our appetite for worldly things. When we attend frequently, we no longer have such a need to wear the latest fashion, and we are not so easily drawn to the entertainment of the world.”&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;3.&amp;nbsp;“The&amp;nbsp;temple is a place of revelation. Many years ago I was walking into the temple and in my mind I heard the words, Learn public speaking. I thought to myself, When will I ever have need for public speaking? Over several months’ period of time I tried very inadequately to conjure up some enthusiasm to obey the prompting I had received. I even checked out a tape from the local library by a public speaker who admitted that his goal was to someday speak in the Mormon Tabernacle. I thought at the time, I’ll never be speaking in the Tabernacle!"&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;I&gt;4. &lt;/I&gt;“In the temple the Spirit of the Lord provides comfort and peace, especially during moments of despair.&lt;I&gt; &lt;/I&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT face="Times New Roman"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;Recently I met a 35-year-old woman in the temple. As we visited, I asked if her husband was with her. With a look of tenderness in her eyes, she shared with me that he had died of a brain tumor three months ago. The temple is her anchor; the Spirit found in the temple gives her comfort and peace, and perhaps her husband was there.”&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;Finally, the October 2010, special issue of the &lt;I&gt;Ensign&lt;/I&gt; on Temples beautifully testifies of their purposes and importance, but what I most love about this issue is its testimony of the temple’s power. It’s no secret that we live in a troubled, almost upside-down world, where Satan is working beyond overtime to destroy God’s work and His children. But what we members of Christ’s church sometimes forget is that God has not left us alone or without protection. The temple covenants and the lessons we learn there are the fortifications we and our children need. Thankfully, my children encourage me to attend the temple, so I know they have acquired testimonies of it, but whether our children say anything to us about the temple or not, or whether or not they know of the blessings they’ve received through our attendance, is not the most important thing. What matters is we have gone to the temple, and we continue to go to the temple, thereby securing the crucial priesthood strength and power we need in our families as we struggle to withstand the evils of these last days. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=95da6ec05455b210VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=_blank&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" color=#0000ff face="Times New Roman"&gt;President Boyd K. Packer&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;&amp;nbsp;describes this principle this way:&lt;BR&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;"Our labors in the temple cover us with a shield and a protection,&lt;BR&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;both individually and as a people. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px" face="Times New Roman"&gt;So come to the temple—come&lt;BR&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;and claim your blessings. 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&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Spiritual Message</dc:subject><dc:subject>Family Home Evening</dc:subject><dc:subject>overcoming weaknesses</dc:subject><dc:subject>yourLDSneighborhood</dc:subject><dc:subject>Teaching Children</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-01-11T04:10:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/12/13/my-peace-give-i-unto-you.aspx?ref=rss"><title>My Peace Give I Unto You</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/12/13/my-peace-give-i-unto-you.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;When I was a child, Christmas Eve was a magical night of lying in bed and rapidly kicking my legs and feet between my sheets because I couldn’t contain my excitement; morning held the promise of long awaited dreams coming true. One particular year, I imagined the large box under the tree, addressed only to me, would be something expensive and wondrous, something like an elaborate dollhouse.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;But as sometimes happens on Christmas morning, when I opened the box, instead of a dollhouse, I found a children’s novel buried under wadded newspaper. Although disappointed, I accepted the gift and read the book. It wasn’t until years later that I, with older and somewhat wiser eyes, realized the book was actually the better gift. As a child, had I played with dolls? Not much. Did I read books? &lt;I&gt;Yes&lt;/I&gt;. The novel, though not what I’d thought I’d wanted, turned out to be the better gift. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Now, Christmas means so much more to me than temporal gifts. Besides being a time of giving, it’s also a time of gratitude for answered prayers and a time of rejoicing in God’s never-ending love and involvement in our lives. Actually, Christmas is becoming more like Thanksgiving to me, in that I enjoy the traditions that go along with the holiday, but like giving thanks for blessings, the deep and lasting, Eternal impressions that fill my heart and lift my sights closer to heaven are gifts that are always with me. I believe cherishing these spiritual witnesses is the real secret to keeping Christmas in my heart all year long.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;However, just as that long ago holiday brought me disappointment, Heavenly Father’s gift of life to us also brings tribulations and heartache. Years ago, my husband and I faced an enemy—a hardship—from which we couldn’t walk away nor eliminate. We dealt with it as best we could, relying on the Lord for help, but we still couldn’t find relief. Eventually, I felt very bitter against “the enemy,” and though I knew I had to forgive, I couldn’t seem to find a way out of that bitterness. Finally, one day as I was folding laundry and feeling overwhelmed by my emotions, I prayed, “Please help me, Heavenly Father. I can’t do this on my own.” Instantly, my burden was gone. Literally. I knew the bitterness and the associated problems were still there somewhere, but I couldn’t feel them, and I knew then as I do now that the Lord had taken my burden for me and carried it as I struggled through the situation. This experience happened to me during the summer, but my joy and amazement felt like Christmas.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;That is why this Christmas I’ve chosen to share with you a few gifts of comfort that only Christ can give during some of this life’s greatest trials. I don’t know whether or not I’ve chosen the right quotes that will lift you in your circumstances, but if I haven’t, please know the answers—the peace—you seek &lt;I&gt;is&lt;/I&gt; out there and can be found through the mouths of our prophets and the whisperings of His Spirit to your soul. I know this to be true. Merry Christmas.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;U&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Suicide&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/U&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;:&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px" color=#333333&gt;“I feel that judgment for sin is not always as cut-and-dried as some of us seem to think. The Lord said, ‘Thou shalt not kill.’ Does that mean that every person who kills will be condemned, no matter the circumstances? I feel the Lord recognized differences in intent and circumstances: Was the person who took his life mentally ill? Was he or she so deeply depressed as to be unbalanced or otherwise emotionally disturbed? Was the suicide a tragic, pitiful call for help that went unheeded too long or progressed faster than the victim intended? Did he or she somehow not understand the seriousness of the act? Was he or she suffering from a chemical imbalance in their system that led to despair and a loss of self-control?&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;A name=25&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 14px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;“Obviously, we do not know the full circumstances surrounding every suicide&lt;/FONT&gt;. Only the Lord knows all the details, and he it is who will judge our actions here on earth.” (&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=e9cf8b5c1dbdb010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;Russell&lt;/FONT&gt; M. Ballard&lt;/A&gt; )&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 8pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;And . . . &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;“we have our ‘second estate,’ which &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"&gt;is the&lt;/FONT&gt; mortality we are now experiencing &lt;I&gt;and&lt;/I&gt; our sojourn in the spirit world following death (italics added&lt;/FONT&gt;,&lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=90a105481ae6b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;Pres. Marion G. Romney&lt;/A&gt; ) &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;A&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;U&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Victims of Abuse&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/U&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;SPAN style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;:&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;If you struggle with abuse, you may want to read &lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=1353279c7c699110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;this article &lt;/A&gt;in its entirety. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Here’s a snippet:&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;“Satan uses your abuse to undermine your self-confidence, destroy trust in authority, create fear, and generate feelings of despair. Abuse can damage your ability to form healthy human relationships. You must have faith that all of these negative consequences can be resolved; otherwise they will keep you from full recovery. While these outcomes have powerful influence in your life, &lt;I&gt;they do not define the real you.&lt;/I&gt;” (Richard G. Scott) &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;U&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;To Those With Heavy Burdens&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/U&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;:&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;You who may be momentarily disheartened, remember, life is not meant to be easy. Trials must be borne and grief endured along the way. As you remember that “with God nothing shall be impossible” (&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;A href="http://scriptures.lds.org/luke/1/37#37" target=contentWindow&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #003366; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none"&gt;Luke 1:37&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;), know that He is your Father. You are a son or daughter created in His image, entitled through your worthiness to receive revelation to help with your righteous endeavors. You may take upon you the holy name of the Lord. You can qualify to speak in the sacred name of God (see D&amp;amp;C 1:20). It matters not that giants of tribulation torment you. Your prayerful access to help is just as real as when David battled his Goliath (see &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;A href="http://scriptures.lds.org/1_sam/17" target=contentWindow&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #003366; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none"&gt;1 Sam. 17&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;). . .&lt;A name=44&gt;&lt;/A&gt; “For with God all things are possible” (Mark 10:27)-- &lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=a3acd7630a27b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Russell M. Nelson&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/A&gt; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;“These are the reasons for the continual trials with which we are all faced. We need these experiences so that we might draw closer to the Lord and learn to depend on him for everything.” –&lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=eb83a41f6cc20110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=e1fa5f74db46c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;Bishop H. Burke Peterson&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;“The fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ brings great comfort in stressing times of mortality. It brings light where there is darkness and a calming influence where there is turmoil. It gives eternal hope where there is mortal despair. It is more than just beautiful doctrine. It is a reality in our lives that if we can be obedient and obtain the eternal rewards that God grants us, if we will draw nigh unto Him and embrace the eternal doctrine, we will be blessed.” &lt;A href="http://classic.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=28fddbdcc370c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;&lt;SPAN style="COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Robert D. Hales&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&lt;A&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&lt;SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 8pt"&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Christmas Is</dc:subject><dc:subject>Life</dc:subject><dc:subject>yourLDSneighborhood</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-12-13T18:10:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/11/17/12-days-of-gratitude-and-thanksgiving.aspx?ref=rss"><title>12 Days of Gratitude AND Thanksgiving</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/11/17/12-days-of-gratitude-and-thanksgiving.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;In preparation for this year’s holiday season, I experimented with what I called “The 12 days of Thanksgiving.” For twelve consecutive days (I actually went 15), I kept track of any “extra” blessings that came that day or “things” for which I felt especially or unusually&amp;nbsp;grateful. The results amazed me. Every single day, I received answers to prayers, or "saw" amazing-to-me blessings.&amp;nbsp;And you know what? As soon as I recognized them, I felt gratitude.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;After this experiment, I began to ponder on and study the words “thanksgiving” and “gratitude.” I went to LDS.org first, and to my surprise, while the word “thanksgiving” is frequently found in the scriptures, the word “gratitude” is not there at all. Neither is “grateful.” How could this be? Haven’t our leaders frequently taught us gratitude is a commandment from the Lord? That it’s a means to humility, the “&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=50e4759235d0c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;mark of a noble soul and a refined character&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;”&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;, and “&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=63f194bf3938b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;the foundation upon which repentance is built&lt;/A&gt; ”? &lt;BR&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;&lt;BR&gt;While these statements about gratitude are correct, through further study, I’ve come to see that not only is there a slight difference between the meanings of “Thanksgiving” and “gratitude,” but there is also an increased power that comes from combining the two. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;The dictionary defines &lt;I&gt;gratitude&lt;/I&gt; as a “feeling” of thanks and &lt;I&gt;thanksgiving&lt;/I&gt; as an “act” of thanks, such as through prayer, acknowledgement, or praise. A feeling versus an action. Hmmm. To me, that sounds very much like sorrow for sins versus confessing and forsaking those sins, or even more profoundly, Nephi’s faithful “I know” compared with “I will go and do." Each, like the joining of gratitude and thanksgiving, are&amp;nbsp;spiritual laws where obeying the individual commandments increases righteousness, but obeying its companion at the same time opens the windows of heaven. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 10pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;One of the greatest scriptural examples of this principle is contained in the book of Luke: &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;&amp;nbsp;“And as he entered into a certain village, there met him ten men that were&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT face=Calibri&gt; &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT face=Arial&gt;lepers&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;, which stood afar off: &lt;A name=13&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“And they lifted up their voices, and said, Jesus, Master, have mercy on us. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;A name=14&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“And when he saw them&lt;EM&gt;,&lt;/EM&gt; he said unto them, Go shew yourselves unto the priests. And it came to pass, that, as they went, they were cleansed. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;A name=15&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice glorified God, &lt;BR&gt;"&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;And fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks and he was a Samaritan. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;A name=17&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“And Jesus answering said, Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine? &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;A name=18&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“There are not found that returned to give glory to God, save this stranger. &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;A name=19&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;“And he said unto him, Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole.”&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;&lt;BR&gt;In this Biblical account, ten deathly ill men obeyed the Lord and were healed from their disease. It is reasonable to me that each must have felt some measure of happiness, wonder, and perhaps even gratitude for the relieving of their suffering, but only one—the one who returned and physically thanked the Lord for His merciful gift—received the greater blessing.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&amp;amp;locale=0&amp;amp;sourceId=7fdc51e4b66fb010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&amp;amp;vgnextoid=024644f8f206c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD" target=""&gt;Elder Merrill J. Bateman&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp; said, “&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;As part of the great miracle of the Atonement and the Savior’s power to mend broken hearts, to heal from within, the parable of the ten lepers takes on new meaning. Luke describes Jesus meeting ten lepers. Upon seeing the Savior, they cried, “Jesus, Master, have mercy on us.” Jesus responded, “Go shew yourselves unto the priests.” As they went their way, they were cleansed. One returned, fell on his face at the Master’s feet, and gave thanks. Jesus said, “Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine?” And then the Lord said to the one who returned, “Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole” (see &lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A href="http://scriptures.lds.org/luke/17/12-19#12" target=contentWindow&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; TEXT-DECORATION: none; text-underline: none" color=#003366&gt;Luke 17:12–19&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;). In becoming a whole person, the grateful leper was healed inside as well as on the outside. That day nine lepers were healed skin deep, but only one had the faith to be made whole. The tenth leper was changed eternally by his faith in the Savior and the healing power of His Atonement.”&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"&gt;Modern scripture also reiterates this truth: “And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more (D&amp;amp;C 78:19).”&lt;/FONT&gt; &lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P style="LINE-HEIGHT: normal; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt" color=#333333&gt;&lt;BR&gt;After studying this principal, I began to wonder. During my 12 Days of Thanksgiving, did I allow heaven’s greater blessings to come into my life as well as perhaps bless the lives of others by immediately expressing thanks when I recognized them? In some instances, I’m sure I did, but in all cases? I don’t know. I simply can’t remember. But what I do know is now—&lt;I&gt;right now&lt;/I&gt;—I have some thanking, some praising, and definitely some praying to do. For I am grateful.&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Spiritual Message</dc:subject><dc:subject>Life</dc:subject><dc:subject>yourLDSneighborhood</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-11-19T05:56:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item><item rdf:about="http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/09/22/the-parable-of-the-strawberry.aspx?ref=rss"><title>The Parable of the Strawberry</title><link>http://rondagibbhinrichsen.com/2010/09/22/the-parable-of-the-strawberry.aspx?ref=rss</link><description>&lt;p style="text-align: left; margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;My family lives on a small farm. We raise hay, cows and goats, but we also try to raise a garden. I say &lt;i&gt;try &lt;/i&gt;because over the years I’ve learned that animals and gardens don’t necessarily mix. Take my strawberry “patch” for instance. Strawberries are among my favorite fruits, so every year I try to grow them. Before we became farmers, I was successful at growing them, but when adversity—i.e., goats—entered my life, I discovered that they, too, like to eat strawberries. Not a good thing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="text-align: left; margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;Because goats are so prone to finding ways out of their pens and then making a beeline for the garden, every year for the past several years, I’ve tried to outsmart them by planting new strawberry plants in hidden or remote areas of our yard. But without fail, and no matter how hard we try to maintain their pens, the animals manage to break out, find my strawberries, and eat them either before or just after the plants have begun to bear fruit. Two years ago I finally, dejectedly, gave up my quest to grow strawberries.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;And then a new spring arrived. While I was weeding the flower garden and preparing it for a new year, I found a single strawberry plant growing amid the other perennials. I was SOOO excited. It had survived not only the goats but also my neglect--I hadn’t even  known it was there. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;At first, I considered digging it up and moving it, yet again, to a new location, but I eventually decided to leave it where it was. I also told my husband about it, and he, knowing the struggles I’d had, directly put up a metal panel fence around the flower bed. I wasn’t sure it would be enough protection, but I hoped, and nourished, and watched. After a few months, it began to bear a few berries. I thought they were among the most delicious berries I’d tasted, but before the season had ended . . , yup! You guessed it. The goats escaped, went straight for the flower garden, and ripped the top right off the strawberry plant.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;Again summer, fall, and winter passed into a new spring—this spring--and I began to prepare the flower garden for the coming season. To my delight, I found I not only had one living strawberry plant, but FIVE! Strawberries are prolific, and such growth is not uncommon, but after all the adversity I’d had with them, I felt those five were the most miraculous plants in the world.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
One righteous person has the same thriving, fruit-bearing power. Over the course of time, the world has faced innumerable hardships and conflicts, but in spite of them, righteous men and women have stepped forward and changed the course of man’s downward spiral. While the scriptures overflow with powerful examples of such people, like David fighting Goliath, Esther saving the Jews, and Captain Moroni raising his coat of freedom and leading others against a wicked king, these righteous people are not the only ones who’ve stood—or now stand—for righteousness and make a difference in this struggling world.&lt;br /&gt;
 &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;In fact, if we are watching, we’ll see that in spite of the world’s growing degradation and perniciousness, modern LDS youth and adults have increased their devotion to temple attendance, scripture study, and kindness.The trouble is, they don't always see the results of their efforts. However, in the July, 1985 Ensign, Gail Argetsinger, costume director for the Manti pageant, did see the results of one good man living his religion:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;When I decided to make the armor for the pageant’s “Moroni and the Title of Liberty” scene out of leather, I visited several dealers in New York City. One place, in a rough section of Manhattan, had exactly what I was looking for.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The store was run by a blunt but friendly man who introduced himself as “Sam.” My husband, Jerry, and I explained what we were looking for and that we represented the Hill Cumorah Pageant, sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Sam lit up like a candle. “The Mormons! Well, come right in, make yourselves at home.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jerry and I looked at each other. Usually our introduction drew no response except, “So? You got cash?” This leather dealer was actually glad to see us!&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;He gave us advice on selecting hides and how to cut them to best advantage. Then, as we worked, Sam began to talk about his experience with Latter-day Saints.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;When he had joined the United States Air Force at the outbreak of World War II, his basic training had been at Hill Air Force Base in Utah. It was his first time out of New York City. Like many good Jewish boys, he had been raised in fear of the gentiles. He had never seen a Latter-day Saint. But as he got to know the many LDS airmen in his group, he learned to love them. “I don’t believe I’ve ever been treated better by anyone,” he said. “But the reason I’ll always love the Mormons is for something that happened later in the war.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;In 1942 Sam was flying bombing missions over North Africa. His commanding officer, Major Hawkins, was a Latter-day Saint from Salt Lake City.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;As Passover approached, Sam and the other Jews in camp discussed how they would celebrate it under combat conditions. To start with, there was no unleavened bread. They thought they would have to use soda crackers.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;On the night before the Passover celebration, when Major Hawkins returned from a combat mission about midnight, he went to Sam’s tent and awakened him. “Sam,” he whispered, “I just heard you boys have no unleavened bread for Passover.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“That’s right,” Sam told him.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Well, come on,” said the major, pulling Sam to his feet. “There’s still time. I’ll fly you to Tel Aviv to get some.” So Sam and the major squeezed piggyback into the cockpit of a small plane and flew all the way to Palestine.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;“I still can’t believe it,” Sam told us. “I asked myself what kind of a man would understand the importance of our sacred rituals. This was the middle of a war, and we didn’t exactly own the skies at that point. He risked his life to get us that unleavened bread. The Mormons are something special, all right!”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sam gave us a good price break on the leather. And it was all because forty years before a righteous man had lived the teachings of the gospel.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;When we went back to his store the next year, Sam was unable to give us the same price break on his leather. I told him it was quite all right. We greatly appreciated his generosity the first time, but to expect such a deal the second time would be taking advantage of him. We expected to pay a fair price.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;He smiled. “A Mormon would understand that.” Then he told us the whole story of his war experience again. “The Latter-day Saints are something special,” he kept repeating. “I really love them.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Thank you, Major Hawkins, wherever you are!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;I agree. Thank you to Major Hawkins and to everyone else who lives the principles of the gospel. Like a strawberry plant, righteousness has the power to spread and grow good fruit that leads ourselves, our families, and our nations back to Christ. Remember Joseph from the Old Testament? After being sold into slavery, taken far from his family, and imprisoned through false accusations, his faithful obedience eventually spread so far and bore enough good fruit that he saved himself, his family, and his people from starvation. Not only that, but he also restored peace and goodness to his family. Isn’t that what we all want? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</description><dc:subject>Spiritual Message</dc:subject><dc:subject>Life</dc:subject><dc:subject>yourLDSneighborhood</dc:subject><dc:subject>self esteem</dc:subject><dc:creator>storywriter@rondagibbhinrichsen.com (Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen)</dc:creator><dc:date>2010-10-04T12:00:00Z</dc:date><dc:rights>Copyright Ronda Gibb Hinrichsen</dc:rights></item></rdf:RDF>
